Some of the subjects of Puppies and Babies may not identify as queer, but it doesn’t matter: the installation queers them. By which I mean to say that it partakes in a long history of queers constructing their own families–be they composed of peers or mentors or lovers or ex-lovers or children or non-human animals–and that it presents queer family making as an umbrella category under which baby making might be a subset, rather than the other way around. It reminds us that any bodily experience can be made new and strange, that nothing we do in this life need have a lid crammed on it, that no one set of practices or relations has the monopoly on the so-called radical, or the so-called normative. Maggie Nelson
About This Quote

The piece in this quote is in regards to the Queer Family and how it is a type of family and in saying that the Queer Family is a type of family. The reason why this quote is important is because it helps them understand that no matter what family they made or where they came from it doesn't matter because all families are different and what you make your family to be does not define your family. Families can be different and that's okay, it helps you know that when you make your own family things don't have to be like everyone else.

Source: The Argonauts

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